A few years ago, I was unhappy, and so were the people around me. I attracted people who were angry, mean, selfish and overall at low-vibrations, and it knocked me down. Eventually, I discovered no matter what I did, I wanted to be happy, and loving. So, I started focusing on myself. I started with reading The Secret and The Magic, practicing daily gratitude, meditating, and writing down and picturing what I wanted. This changed who I was inside. Today, I am a happy, smart, determined young woman, who doesn’t need anyone else’s approval. And you know what happened?
From angry ex-boyfriends, selfish, destructive “friends”, abusive and rude bosses and co-workers, they all vanished from my life. Today, I am surrounded by fun, loving people. My social life is better and more filled than it ever was. I make friends almost daily, people seem to be drawn to my positive energy. Twice in the past week, as I work as a writer now at Starbucks like your basic American, I have had two separate men come up and sit with me, telling me life lessons, and that they see potential and a good, loving spirit in me. This had NEVER happened to me before, and it seems as I have been open to loving all people and focusing on the good in my relationships, people are drawn to me, and drawn to inspire me and feel inspired.
Everyday I list the relationships I am grateful for, and state I want to help people and change the world, proving my intentions in relationships are pure. This has completely changed my life! It has even gone off into effecting my businesses and finances, adding more into my life.
Now, to switch topics a little bit, why exactly are all these people coming into my life? I truly believe that people come into your life for 2 reasons: because you are on the same vibration as them, and to teach you something. You draw people into your life based on who you are and where you are going. So all these incredible people I’ve been meeting lately? They’re here because I am happy and because I need to learn from my experiences with them. I have met more successful people this month than in my entire life, and I feel that the reason is to keep me pursuing my biggest dreams as the universe is telling me I am on the right path.
All relationships come into your life for a reason, and forget what people tell you it is, only YOU know the reason why. Don’t push against them by needing them all to be perfect, and instead trust that the universe will bring the right people in and out of your life when you need them to. Life is energy, and energy is always changing, and so are relationships. So to keep your relationships amazing, keep being grateful, loving and YOU!